Advantages of a positive frame of mind.
Life will not be all plain sailing. Indeed, hardship, trials and tribulations are part and parcel of being. Encountering problems is not a bad thing, the main concern is the approach we take to deal with it. A positive frame of mind is imperative for so many reasons. Positive thinking is proven to improve performance in efficiency and quality. We are usually more confident and perform better when we are feeling good and well.
I have found biological explanations of this. A positive frame of mind is because of elevated amounts of neuro transmitters such as serotonin that regulate the efficiency abilities of the brain. The knock effects of a positive frame of mind also include better health not only improved mental health but better in the physical sense aswell. This is because of the boost to the immune system that a positive frame of mind can give you.
The reverse is also true, if we are depressed we are far more liable to getting other diseases and mental health issues. Our interaction with others decline, we start to think irrationally and our confidents can fall. In short this is a frame of mind that is best to avoid at all costs. Feeling unhappy ever so often is not unusual but the way we decide to deal with a dilemma comes from our state of mind.
A positive mental attitude is also about giving you a can do attitude. Those that think positively are far more likely to see challenges rather than issues or possibilities rather than difficulties. For instance, entrepreneurs who are successful generally are because they are able to spot opportunities for growth in a marketplace which other people only see problems in. The positive mental attitude of a successful person means that opportunity becomes a reality; because they also have the drive and motivation to succeed and make their vision come true. So as you can see there is much to be gained from a positive mental attitude. The difficulty for lots of people is in developing one in the first place.
Creating a positive frame of mind is not some new aged trend. For ages religious men and scholars alike sought out and created skills to harness an inner tranquility. While this may have begun to make mankind closer to god the essence of this idea is just as relevant in the present day. That a positive frame of mind makes us closer to the divine while a negative frame of mind can only direct us in to ways of being that are a detriment to our lives. Monks realised this long ago which is why they devote themselves to a life of abstinence and mental and spiritual fulfilment.
Among the best ways to determine your frame of mind is to reflect on how you are with other people. A great way to do this is to picture how you behave towards people you do not know. Are you outgoing and open to meeting and talking with other people? Or are you insular and shy. Believe it or not one of the best ways to overcome a negative frame of mind is to change your mindset towards the world around you and that means the people in it also. If you are generally awkward around other people then try this experiment.
One night make yourself to strike up a conversation at random in a public place. Do not be concerned about how you look or appear or what you talk about. A reference about the weather or anything will do. Just try it and note how you feel afterwards.
You see, how you are with other people will impact the opportunities you get presented. Think about it in this way who is the most likely to get a job between two people of equal ability and experience except for one difference, One is uptight and uncomforable with others and the other is easy going and comfortable with others. If I was the boss I know which one I would pick for the Job.
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